All we know the married system is being collapsed around the world. It is being destroyed by technology, science, advancement and many more. There are many factors that are effective our married life. Once this marriage system, the family system was invented in India and now it Indian marriage system is going to hamper a lot.
There are several factors that are damaging marriage system. According to me they are follows –
- Why society when we have everything that fulfill the needs of society? We have tvs , games , music , movies and many more to entertain. We don’t want to go to hangout with your wife. This looks actually very odd and old system.
- Effective social system – We are going to have very effective social system. There are servants and people for all household works. To care children there are care takers. To cook food for you, there are servants. To clean house, to do daily buying’s for you, you don’t need any life partner. All you can do through paid servants. To raise your children, there are tuition teachers who are coming to your home, paying special attention to your children and generating fruitful results.
- Technology enables us not to depend on others. We don’t need partners because of technology. In the past days, when the household works was being done by the homemaker and they are being replaced by technology. To clean your house use vacuum cleaner, to cook use micro ovens etc and many more.
- We don’t need any more babies, we want technology and advancements – Today, and except few developed countries most of developing countries don’t really any more population. They require quality people. They require less people and more technology to develop missile system, space station, building high end computers. The human being is gradually being replaced by machines everywhere – no matter be it household works or any other works. Technology somehow is replacing teachers, books and more. When we need machines rather than human being then why family?
- Human being aim is being changed. We don’t live in agriculture era. Once there was a saying “more child mean more working hands” is not valid anymore. We need less people and more machines. Because application of physical labor is not required. Application of mental labor is only required.
- Due to woman empowerment, woman are not spending time in workplaces, motherhood is becoming just an option for us. It is an optional thing. A woman thinks if I cannot be part of motherhood, it does not matter. It’s better to put energy on professional things and earn money.
When the necessary of children decreases why marry? Just for physical thing? Sex? That’s too don’t need. Open Google and find best temporary wives in internet there. The wives too can find temporary husbands there. Now think about the situation – when you can get a husband or wife temporary and that is too very easily why waste time of life time commitment? This will answer your question very easily.
From scientific point of view, the more population is also a problem. The more population means more uses of minerals, more cultivation for corps, more energy, more foods, more cars, and more spaces. But our beloved planet earth has everything have limitation. Even if someone says you can mine helium in moon (because Helium is actually rare materials in earth but there are plenty of them in moon) but still you have to live in this earth. The more population means more cut of trees and build homes, factories etc. Look at the data which country does the most pollution? It is obviously china and India. The per head population is three times more higher in USA than India but so many populations made China and India most two populous country in the world. If population is less, there more application to technology but quantity of technology will less . Let me get it into your brain. Air conditioners release CFC gas in the air, now how many Acs there will be in USA and India. No need to remind – it is of course India. So say a no to population in 21st century .
China’s one child policy would be the be the best in the world. Some says it just increased the number of aged people in earth. This sentence is right but in the other hand it is wrong. Look at the average age of the people in developed countries. Surprisingly, you will see the average age of American is more than Chinese. If age really a factor of today’s progress how America is progressing? The factor is not the age, the factor is the just the age . Today a country require to developed technologies to counter growth actually. Mental labor is actually way more thing than physical labor.
I hope now you understand why marriage is actually optional today’s world. If woman do more study and job she will have fewer babies. The quality of lifestyle will also increase. However, all this have some limitations. Human being is the biggest destroyer of the earth. It is the biggest criminal of 21st century. We rapidly cut trees and create more and more economy driven society. We focus more and more factory build up. We focus more offices , banks , more manufacturing and research industries as well.
Don’t know where this will end. I heard ones “how long we could push our technology forward ? “ , the answer is “until they push back us”. Look forward meet that day.
